October 1, 2009

The sun goes up…

Hey Babe,

Sometimes I get so ticked at you for not being here.  I know its not your fault and its not God’s fault, but when things need to be done around here that you always took care of…I get mad….then just sad.  I woke up this morning and it was one of those mornings where I wake up feeling like you’re here. Well not here in the house but still alive somewhere else and I get this feeling like I’m going to see you soon.  In theory its a wonderful feeling, right?  But even as I feel it I know it’s not true…so it’s not a good feeling at all.  In fact this morning I had automatic anxiety and started crying.  What a way to start the day.

On top of that my hip has been killing me…so they gave me a pain killer that ended up making me dizzy and nauseous for a week…I thought I was getting the flu, but turns out that it was the meds.  I had my hip “popped” back into place yesterday  and a new med…so hopefully it will be back to normal soon.  I keep thinking of the verse “my grace is sufficient  for you” and how I feel anything but graceful.  Idk.

So enough of the whining, huh?  It’s going to be a year on Monday.  Actually I think it will hit me more on Sunday, since you went on a Sunday.  I still relive that day over and over.  I try not to, but sometimes I give into it.  I just can’t believe that this ever happened.  Sometimes I can’t even believe that you were here at all.  I was thinking of how you used to get up at 5:11 am and get ready and come back upstairs and wake me up.  The sun goes up… The sun goes up…  I am having a really hard time getting up in the morning.  I have to be up at 5:30 tomorrow.  We’ll see how that goes.

I miss you.  Sorry for being a whiner tonight.

me

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